Ghosting - a pay it forward approach.

Ghosting - a pay it forward approach.

The word "Ghost" can bring up images of cheesy movies (see picture), Ouija boards, Robert Stack, and Halloween.

In recent times this word has taken on a whole new meaning.

Notably the activity of "Ghosting". Ghosting is when you leave treats, presents, notes, and anything else you can think of for your friends, neighbors, and family. The name "Ghosting" derives from leaving these items anonymously.

 This activity has its roots in suburban areas all over North America and in the past Ghosting typically took place around Halloween. This suburban activity ussually included candy or treats and a copy of the "Ghosting Letter" asking the recipient to pass on the Halloween Cheer. However, the "norms" of Ghosting are changing. There is a small movement taking place in urban areas around the country. The purpose is to bring a sense of community and connection back to the wandering, cold, distant souls of residential buildings and office towers. A small group of people have taken it upon themselves to start a revolution of change. To these people Ghosting is a nice, anonymous gesture to brighten someones day. The recipients can be friends, relatives, old flames, neighbors, or complete strangers. This is all done with the intention that the recipients will "pay it forward" (like the movie) after their day has been brightened up a little.

I first became familiar with the new Ghosting shortly after I moved into my most recent Seattle apartment. On random days during the year there would be candy, baked goods, soda, and even little "have a great day" notes left at my door. Originally I thought "OMG. I have a stalker - again." After several nights of spying out the peep hole, snooping on the neighbors, and reading blogs - I found out I wasnt being stalked at all. I was being "Ghosted". It really made me feel bad for throwing away all of those things I assumed were poisoned. I still get Ghosted to this day and after speaking to some of my neighbors (which I probably wouldn't have done otherwise) I know who my Ghost is. I Ghost her back every chance I get.

So maybe you need a nice change in life or you live amonst strangers youd like to know. Give Ghosting a try and see what happens. You just might make a difference in someones day (or maybe life) - no sheets required.